The Integrity Reset

A Private 12-Week Intensive for
Men in the Wake of Betrayal


Not every man who breaks trust is a narcissist or a monster.
Some are deeply conflicted men who crossed a line and now have to live with it.


The Integrity Reset is a structured, no-nonsense process for men who want to understand what happened, take responsibility without collapsing into shame, and rebuild integrity from the inside out, whether the relationship survives or not.

This is not therapy.
It’s not reassurance.
And it’s not about being forgiven.

What This Is

  • A 12-week private process anchored by six facilitated sessions, with short, direct video teachings.
  • Small cohorts: 3–6 men max
  • Direct, adult conversations
  • Live accountability and repair work
  • No hand-holding, no performative vulnerability
  • This work is about becoming trustworthy, not managing optics.

Who This Is For

Men who:

  • Have broken trust in a significant relationship
  • Are willing to face themselves honestly
  • Want to understand the internal patterns that led here
  • Are ready to grow up emotionally, not just feel bad
  • You don’t need to know whether your relationship will survive.
  • You do need to be willing to take responsibility.

Who This Is Not For

This is not for men seeking reassurance, quick forgiveness, or strategies to manage someone else’s reaction.

Why Live Repair

Insight alone doesn’t change behavior. Live repair allows men to practice accountability in real time, speaking without defensiveness, collapse, or control. This is where responsibility becomes visible, embodied, and credible.

About James Baker

I have spent over two decades working with men and couples around trust, intimacy, and responsibility. Many of the men I work with have crossed lines they never expected to cross and are now living with the consequences in their relationships and within themselves. I created The Integrity Reset as a direct and supportive space for men who want to take real responsibility and live with greater honesty going forward, whether or not their relationship continues.